If you are going to manifest a soul mate, first of all you have to be sure that’s really what you want.

Are you ready to share your life with someone? Ask your heart if you are really ready to share everything with another person. Are you looking for a soul mate or a slave?

What is the worst thing that can happen if you get what you want? Is there a voice inside you that tells you that you don’t deserve it or makes you worry about what will happen once you get it? Work on this voice, on the beliefs that give it the power to speak.

If you ask the Creator to take you to where you should be to meet your soul mate, are you sure you’re ready to move to that place?

If you get a soul mate, are you ready to spend time with them? If you get bored with only one partner, maybe it’s because you don’t have the gene for monogamy.

All these things come into play when you are manifesting a soul mate. So, even though you may feel you’re fully prepared, ask yourself the following questions:

• Do you want a soul mate now or do you want a companion now?

• Do you have something to offer someone else?

• What makes you the prize?

• What do you know about the opposite sex?

• Are you willing to learn and always keep learning?

• Do you know that you deserve to fulfil your dreams?

Know What You Want

Once you’re sure you’re ready to manifest a soul mate, you have to know exactly what you want. When you go up and ask God for a soul mate, you have to be very specific. You have to be precise about the gender, even the species, because if you ask for somebody who loves you unconditionally, you might receive a dog.

• Do you want a rich soul mate?

• Do you want them to be single or married?

• Do you want them to share their fortune with you?

Many people will sit down and write a long list of what they want in another person. I know people who’ve written down everything they can think of, but forgotten the most important thing: that their soul mate is compatible with them and they are in love.

Don’t ask for a perfect soul mate, since they may be too perfect. Instead, ask for your most compatible soul mate.

If you have a preference as to whether or not someone is faithful sexually, specify that your soul mate has the monogamy gene.

The following exercise will help you to clarify what you want and, importantly, what you have to offer in return:

Know What You Want In A Soul Mate

1. List four traits that you wish for in a soul mate.

2. Ask someone else what they think is important and borrow two of the traits they come up with.

3. Write the four best qualities that you have to offer your soul mate.

4. List two qualities that others see in you.

5. List all the qualities that your soul mate will have.

Manifesting

Here are several ways to manifest your soul mate:

Calling For Your Compatible Soul Mate

1. Centre yourself in your heart and visualize going down into mother earth, which is a part of all that is.

2. Go up through your crown chakra in a ball of light and project your consciousness out past the stars to the universe.

3. Go beyond the universe, past the layers of light, through the golden light, past the jelly-like substance that is the laws, into a pearly, iridescent white light, the seventh Plane of existence.

4. Make the command to your subconscious and request to the creator:

‘Creator of All That Is, it is commanded that my most compatible life soul mate be brought to me, and that they have these attributes [state attributes]. Thank you! It is done, it is done, it is done.’

5. Witness the call to your most compatible soul mate being sent out.

6. As soon as the process is finished, rinse yourself off with seventh- Plane energy and stay connected to it.

Note the following:

• If you command that you have your most compatible soul mate now, you will pull in whoever is the most compatible person right now. This may not be the most compatible one of all.

• If you want someone to spend your life with, instead of saying that you want a compatible soul mate, ask for your most compatible divine life soul mate.

Manifestation For 10 Days

1. Take your list of all the things you want your soul mate to be and put it by your bed.

2. Go up to the seventh Plane as before. imagine that person while in the theta state.

3. Do this every day for at least 10 days.

4. Each morning, meditate on being the person you want to be in your soul-mate relationship.

Pyramid Exercise To Find Your Soul Mate

One of the most important exercises for calling in your soul mate is the following meditation. i have used it throughout my life to bring in abundance of all kinds. in this exercise we are using pyramid energy to magnify the manifestation.

1. Go up to the seventh Plane as before.

2. Make the command:

‘Creator of All That Is, it is commanded that I bring my compatible soul-mate into my life. Thank you! It is done. It is done, it is done.’

3. Witness yourself standing under a huge pyramid. witness the energy of your request being sent up into the center of the pyramid to be magnified and sent to the universe.

4. As soon as the process is finished, rinse yourself off with seventh- Plane energy and stay connected to it.

Editor's Note: Discover more ThetaHealing techniques to aide your most intimate relationships in Finding Your Soul Mate with ThetaHealing by Vianna Stibal, which is published by Hay House and out now.